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In Real Life

In Real Life Book Cover In Real Life
Jessica Love
Juvenile Fiction
Macmillan
March 1, 2016
240

Hannah Cho and Nick Cooper have been best friends since 8th grade. They talk for hours on the phone, regularly shower each other with presents, and know everything there is to know about one another. There's just one problem: Hannah and Nick have never actually met. Hannah has spent her entire life doing what she's supposed to, but when her senior year spring break plans get ruined by a rule-breaker, she decides to break a rule or two herself. She impulsively decides to road trip to Vegas, her older sister and BFF in tow, to surprise Nick and finally declare her more-than-friend feelings for him. Hannah's romantic gesture backfires when she gets to Vegas and meets Nick's girlfriend, whom he failed to mention. And it turns out his relationship status isn't the only thing he's been lying to her about. Hannah knows the real Nick can't be that different from the online Nick she knows and loves, but now she only has one night in Sin City to figure out what her feelings for Nick really are, all while discovering how life can change when you break the rules every now and then.

 

Review:

Real rating: 3 1/2 stars

“In Real Life” is a quick read that still packs a punch in the acceptance of the difference between expectations and reality.

I really appreciated that the book took seriously the importance of friendships that can form online.  Some of my best friends were met online through mutual interests (let’s be real, those interests revolve mostly around books), and I value them as much as the ones made “in real life.”   The expectation of someone you have met online measuring up to what you have made them out to be in your head is a major part of the book, but the same thing is true of those we meet elsewhere.  Learning to adjust your expectations to reality is a part of growing up.  Honestly, many a failed relationship is due to not accepting that, including everything from friendships to marriages.

The characters were typical teenagers, and I believe their reactions to circumstances were accurately portrayed.  However, Hannah could be more than a little bit judgmental, and the adult in me wanted to scream at some of the bad decisions they were all making.  None of this ruined the plot for me, but it did cause me to deduct a star.

Bonus:  It’s a diverse book!

“In Real Life” is a book that will resonate with anyone who has a bond formed with someone they met online.  I believe it’s a good read for anyone upper middle grade and up.

This review is based upon a complimentary copy provided by the publisher in exchange for an honest review.

 

Content Warning:

Language, Sexual Situations